Tuesday, December 19, 2006

Questions Couples Should Ask (Or Wish They Had) Before Marrying

Original "questions should ask before marrying" is one report of the NY Times, I think since America is greatly different from the China, so these questions should be rectified before introducing into China.
1) Have we discussed whether or not to have children, and if the answer is yes, when?
2) Have we clear ideas of each other's financial obligations and goals, do we understand and support each other?
3) Have we fully disclosed our health histories, both physical and mental?
4) Do we truly listen to each other and fairly consider one author's ideas and complaints?
5) Do we value and respect each other's parents, and is either of us concerned about whether the parents will interfere with the relationship?
6) what doe my family do that annoys you?
7) If one of us were to be offered a career opportunity in a location far from the other's family, are we prepared to move?
Totally, there are about 7 points samilar to the required questions for America.
As a young man of the modern society, facing quick changes of the society, I think we should prepare for the marriage with these questions.

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